I’ve always been big on helping people, making them feel less alone and more connected to others.
No one deserves to feel alone. You deserve far better than feeling lonely all the time.
Sometimes it seems like no one could ever possibly understand you. Or like things could never ever get better. Or like this is all you’re meant to do with your life.
But none of that is true.
We’re all connected. Things do get better than we could ever imagine. You were meant to live for such more (gotta love Switchfoot). You deserve better!
There are still days I feel really lonely. Like I have no friends. Like no one cares what’s happening to me. Deep down, I know none of that is true. But I also know how easy it is to get caught up in those negative thoughts.
Take a deep breath. And another one. And another one. It really helps, trust me.
I want to help you feel part of something bigger. You matter. Your feelings, thoughts, experiences, hardships, joys and sorrows matter. They make you who you are.
I know what it feels like when you think it can’t possibly get worse and then it does. And I’m learning how it feels to get up, stand tall and rise strong.
As I’ve said before, I’m not perfect but I’m real. I’m trying to be more open, honest and vulnerable in this space and my life. Life is too short to hold back any longer.
I hope some day soon you feel inspired to stand up and make a big change in your life for the better. It’s scary as hell but so worth it.
You’re worth it.
I’m sorry for whatever happened in your past to make you feel less than, stupid, scared, alone. I understand those feelings down to my very core.
The uphill battle starts with you recognizing that where you are right now doesn’t define who you will be forever. You have to make a decision that it’s time for things to change. You.
Again, I know how freaking scary and nerve-wracking and insane that sounds in the moment. But it’s so, so worth it. And you deserve it.
If you ever want to talk, friend, I’m here for you. I’ll listen any time you need me.